November 1, 2015
June 26, 2015
We are blissfully granted that one sense which gives us the ability to distinguish things through our vision: our sight. It gives us the ease to describe others by their physical appearance. Whether this person is pretty, that person is skinny, the other one is flawless, while the rest we claim unnoticeable.
Nobody has a bad aim, I suppose. What we see is how we describe. As simple as that.
Ever since we recognize people through their physical features, we are aware that the other way around happens to us as well. Consciously we know that people remember our facial feature, our bodily gesture, or perhaps our notable style.
It makes the perfect sense for us to present the best physical appearance for others to acknowledge our presence. That is when we give more attention to affectation: be it from fashion to our facial complexion.
Well, if you claim you don’t, I most certainly do.
March 21, 2015
Currently I work in the most placentious industry where pleasing people has become such responsibility on a daily basis. Breathing out of the generous salary makes me as placentious, if not more, as the limited company. That's when I realize how hard it is for people to be grateful, yet alone satisfied.
November 21, 2014
September 5, 2014
It was raining during my short stay in Melbourne. The sun was hidden between the grey clouds. I was between staying longer beneath the warm blanket and called it just another freezing day or gathering my last will to have a stroll enjoying the city. I chose the second option and I left Melbourne with no regret.
June 7, 2014
"An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth"
We heard this phrase way too much that we live with it. We will be nice to people when they are nice to us. And we will be nasty when they are trying to mess with us. The idea is not bad actually. We treat the way people treat us, don't we?
But what if people expect us to do nice thing and we are looking for the same thing? We just stuck in our wait for others to do so. Then no one does the good thing because everyone is busy waiting for the other party to start ahead. Later everyone thinks this is a sulky world full of apathetic careless people.
All we have to do is be kind and people will be kind to us. If they choose not to, be good anyway! A lovely lady once told me:
"Be nice to me, I'll be ten times nicer to you.
Be nasty with me, I'll be nice to you. Just nice."